Veggie Lover falls in love

So for the past 3 weeks I have been off my program. I have begun dating a very wonderful man and unfortunately chose to eat as an expression of happiness. I realize by my bodies reaction that it isn't a good idea. So the goal is to get the foods necessary to be back on program Sunday. One of the side effects of eating cruddy again is I got sick quite quickly afterwards. Its time for me to get it back on track. I want to go out and find a dress for my boyfriend's birthday that will make sense for me look as beautiful as possible. I can only do that if I spend my effort on working towards a better me. I lost 16 pounds in 3 weeks and then gained back 8 pounds in the next 3 weeks. so now for a 6 week time period I have lost a total of 8 pounds. That is AWFUL...so love or no love this veggie lover needs to find her place so that she can do both, be in love with man and vegetables.